If you spend any time on Instagram, you’ve probably seen them.
The perfectly curated 5am wake-up, the sunlight streaming through linen curtains, the glass of lemon water on a spotless kitchen counter, the yoga flow, journaling session, green juice, skincare routine, meditation, workout and protein smoothie. All before 8am.
And while these videos can feel inspiring, they can also create a quiet pressure.
Because here’s my unpopular opinion:
Most morning routines on Instagram aren’t realistic.
Not because the people making them are doing anything wrong. But because they’re highlights. Not real life.
The problem with “perfect” morning routines
Social media rewards aesthetics.
Clean spaces. Soft lighting. Calm music. Slow, intentional movements. Everything looking peaceful and productive.
But real mornings often look very different.
Real mornings can be:
- Rushing to get out the door
- Snoozing your alarm three times
- Drinking coffee while answering emails
- Feeling tired, anxious or overwhelmed
- Simply trying to get through the day ahead
And that’s normal. All of it is normal.
When we constantly see highly polished routines, it can make our own mornings feel like we’re doing something wrong (even when we’re not!).
Wellness shouldn’t feel like another standard to live up to
Morning routines are often presented as the secret to success.
Wake up earlier.
Add more habits.
Optimise your morning.
But wellness isn’t supposed to feel like a productivity checklist.
A routine that genuinely supports your wellbeing might look much simpler.
Some days it might mean:
- Getting an extra hour of sleep
- Drinking your coffee slowly
- Stepping outside for fresh air
- Taking a few deep breaths before starting work
Wellness is supposed to support your life, not become another thing you feel like you’re failing at.
The truth about routines that actually work
The most sustainable routines aren’t the most aesthetic ones.
They’re the ones that fit your real life.
That means:
• routines that change depending on your energy levels
• routines that work around work, family, or studies
• routines that leave room for rest
• routines that are flexible instead of rigid
Consistency doesn’t come from perfection.
It comes from simplicity and compassion for yourself.
Some mornings, the win is just getting up
There will be mornings where you:
• don’t wake up early
• skip journaling
• forget your vitamins
• feel unmotivated
And that doesn’t mean you’ve failed.
Sometimes the biggest win is simply getting out of bed and starting the day anyway.
Progress doesn’t always look productive or aesthetic.
Sometimes it just looks like showing up.
Creating a morning routine that actually supports you
Instead of copying routines online, try asking yourself:
- What helps me feel calmer in the morning?
- What helps me feel less rushed?
- What’s one small habit that genuinely improves my day?
Your routine might be as simple as:
- Making your bed
- Drinking water
- Stretching for two minutes
- Sitting quietly with your coffee
That’s still a routine. And it’s still enough.
A gentle reminder
You don’t need a 12-step morning routine.
You don’t need to wake up at 5am.
You don’t need your mornings to look aesthetic.
You just need something that works for you.
And sometimes that simply means giving yourself permission to start the day slowly.
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Love,
Anna
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